Fallen Princesses
Good morning GBD! So after reading about the Princess Syndrome (thanks Lauren!), Alyssa told me about this photo project Dina Goldstein is working on called Fallen Princesses. The project was inspired by Dina’s observation of 3-year-old girls who were developing an interest in Disney’s fairy tales (like Tuesday’s article said). Dina herself is a new mom, so this fascination that young girls have with princesses got her thinking about how Disney’s leading females would fare in today’s reality.
According to Dina, “The ‘…happily ever after’ is replaced with a realistic outcome and addresses current issues.” The environments she creates in her photos are often grim, but the juxaposition of these princesses with the type of conflicts they would face really does get you thinking about princesses, fairy tales, and how that all mixes with real life problems.
To see more photos, click here. In addition to the photo of Cinderella above, Dina made photos of Snow White, Rapunzel, Little Red Riding Hood, Sleeping Beauty, Jasmine, and Belle. Alyssa said she found the photos “kind of disturbing, I’m not really sure what to think of it…but it’s definitely a conversation starter.”
Then come on back here and tell us what you think about the project. Good idea? Bad idea? Too depressing? Not depressing enough? Does it have value? Or is it just a gimmick?
Thanks to Alyssa! Who’s making her own way in this world instead of relying on a prince to save the day.





Kailin
June 19, 2009This issue is def. something I think about quite a bit since I do have a 3-year-old daughter and am a mother who write girl-centric books and produce research-based educational curriculum for kids. I also hosted a radio show about women’s issues so I am writing from this perspective.
I don’t think there is anything wrong with 3-year-old girls playing princess. It fosters imagination and aspiration. If you have ever raised a 3-year-old, you get a sense of how really young that is – practically just out-of-diapers. I believe 3-year-olds should play princesses, paupers, doctors, firefighters, nurses, Presidents, athletes, movie stars, rock stars, etc. At this age, it is make-believe, and playing different roles help build empathy and flexibility.
While I applaud the photographer for her creative vision and unique voice, I find these photos a little depressing. Girls at 3 have their whole lives to discover what real life is all about. Between the age of 0 to 5 is crucial to developing self-esteem and confidence. Through role models (called “modeling” of positive images), children are taught social and behavior skills. Princesses happen to be one role they are exposed to. The problem people have with the Princess syndrome is when girls/or boys (some boys have it, too) can’t separate reality from pretend (especially when they are older). Believe me, most 3 year olds already know the difference between pretending to be a princess and reality. Kids are a lot smarter than people give them credit for