The good old times
Do you remember your grandparents talking about the past? And telling you that everything was better back then? I caught myself thinking yesterday, “In my childhood a lot of stuff was better!” So I kinda made myself like my own granny! And here and there I think I can find my first wrinkles.
To earn some money besides my college activities, I work in an elementary school. I help kids do their homework and study for exams. Sometimes I talk with them about their hobbies, and every time I’m frustrated afterwards. 99% of my kids only like to play Nintendo or computer games. They don’t play outside or read books! Most of them can’t even concentrate long enough to read a whole chapter.
Granted, the children are confronted with a lot more media stuff than I was when I was their age, but did the needs and the thinking of children really change that much? Or is it just an aspect of today’s society to flood our children with need-to-haves and the latest video games?
Okay…I’m no moralizer at all, but when I think of my childhood, I remember being outside, exploring the world, my parents reading aloud to me, building whole cities out of LEGOs, or dressing up Barbie. The fantasy was unlimited!
I was allowed to watch television for only one hour per day, and I still remember the TV shows I loved deeply! Don’t you miss the good old TV shows sometimes? The little vampire? Professor Gadget? David el gnomo? Dr. Snuggles? Sesame Street with Big Bird? Or books like St. Clare’s? Grimm’s fairy tales? The Jungle Book? To sing with Balu the bear or dancing with Cinderella? I miss them a lot and I’m scared of all the Pokémon monsters which are on TV now!
Thanks to YouTube, I surfed through my childhood TV shows and songs last night. I just loved it and now I sing the theme song of “Disney’s Adventures of the Gummi Bears” all the time!
I need to face the truth – I’m getting old! Hehe. Do you guys have any memories back to your early childhood concerning your favourite books, movies, or shows?
We were all kids not too long ago, and one day some of us will have kids of our own (or already have some). Do you feel the needs and possibilities for children today have changed? Or am I just a sentimental girl who loves to live in the past?




Kailin
June 28, 2009I remember my childhood fondly, mainly because my parents made the effort to include us (my bro and I) in everything. We weren’t given lots of material things to play with (toys), but were given experiences instead – going to the beach, fishing, clam-digging, camping, hiking, Disneyland, Universal Studios, family trips, Sunday school, museums, music classes, helping out with the family business, going to the park, kite-flying, growing a garden, raising and owning several pets…the same family experiences I’m trying to share with my own kids.
Now that I’m a parent, I truly realize the magnitude of these experiences. It takes effort to spend quality time with your kids, rather than just giving them an electronic toy to play with. Back then, video games were scarce (mainly in Arcades) and there weren’t very many – Pac Man, Centipede, etc. (yes, I’m That old). Oh, and we had VCRs. LOL.
It’s alright to be sentimental, and it’s great you’ve had a wonderful childhood. Our childhood memories are so fundamental to developing our perspectives in life. To me, it’s alright to be sentimental about our childhoods, but just don’t let your childhood hold you back from becoming an adult, as well – meaning to grow up and have a life, family, career of your own, too. I can write a book here on the importance of reaching into our childhood to help us develop as an adult, but this is just a comment section. So, great topic, as it has got me thinking…