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Fab Female: Noha Rushdi Saleh

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Today’s Fab Female is Noha Rushdi Saleh (aka, Noha Ostadh). Why? I’ll tell you why.

One day, Noha was walking down the streets of Cairo, minding her own business, when a man named Sharif Gommaa drove up to her and slowly followed alongside her. This alone is pretty creepy. But Sharif was gunning for Creep of the Year at the time, so he repeatedly groped her as well. He just kept bothering her and bothering her, until finally Noha was like, Uh uh…that’s it…I’ve had enough.

So you know what she did? She brought Sharif to the police station to file a complaint. Hmm. Perhaps “brought” isn’t the right word. Because what ended up happening was an hour-long struggle as Noha literally dragged her attacker to the police station. My guess is that Sharif put up a fight because he had better things to do than to go to a police station. The life of a sexual harasser, you see, is filled with pressing social engagements.

Did I mention that this was in Egypt? Where a survey by the Egyptian Centre for Women’s Rights showed that:

  • 98% of foreign women visitors experienced sexual harassment
  • 83% of Egyptian women experienced sexual harassment
  • 62% of Egyptian men admitted harassing women
  • 53% of Egyptian men blame women for “bringing it on”
  • But surely it can’t be that bad. How could it be that bad? Well, just to give you an idea of what Noha had to deal with, not only did witnesses tell her NOT to go to the police, but they also told her it was HER fault. And and aaaaand…when Noha finally managed to get Sharif through the door of the police station, the police initially REFUSED to investigate.  Yeah.

    In other words, someone put something in Noha’s Wheaties that day because homegirl ain’t playin’!

    In the end, Sharif was sentenced to 3 years in prison and fined $895 in damages to Noha. According to Engy Ghozlan of the Egyptian Centre for Women’s Rights, this is the first known case of prison for groping.

    And the moral of this story is? Eat your Wheaties.

    Read more about Noha here.

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    Alyssa

    October 5, 2009

    She is definitely a Fab Female, that takes alot of guts. I have never experienced anything as bad as what she did, but I’m sure alot of girls can relate to guys honking their horns when your wallking, or saying inappropriate things, when your just minding your own business. I know not all guys are like that but seriously that has given me an all guys are dogs complex. lol
    The fact that she had the guts to drag that creep to the police, ahh… it’s brilliant. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve wanted to kick a guys butt for being inappropriate.
    By the way Kathy you are soo freakin hilarious, “gunning for creep of the year,” and “homegirl ain’t playin” I was seriously out of breath from laughing :)


    ICT

    October 5, 2009

    You go girl!!
    You know when I was a kid I was molested, but because this man threatened my family, I didn’t speak up. I still wonder what would have happened if I would have said something…

    In sharing this, I know this is public. I’m over this by now, and have helped many other girls in similar situations. Just know that it’s not something that hold me back anymore. It has empowered me.


    G

    October 5, 2009

    Those statistics sadden me :( However, I think Noha deserves her won cheering section, because the girl rocks!


    tracey1232

    October 5, 2009

    This girl is definately some sort of legend!
    A true inspiration! :D

    Thanks for this
    xo
    Tracey


    Jen.

    October 5, 2009

    I completely agree that sharing your story empowers you. ICT, it is awful to hear of an experience like that, but if you have dealt with your pain and moved on with your life, then good for you! I feel that all of my experiences with harassment have made me a stronger woman who is no longer afraid to stand up for myself and for other women.
    Love these gutsy females!


    Kendra

    October 5, 2009

    Truly inspiring! It must of taken serious courage to do what Noha did!


    Kathy

    October 5, 2009

    @ Alyssa – I try. :D

    @ ICT – Props to you for taking something negative and turning into a positive. :)


    ICT

    October 6, 2009

    I didn’t mean to take any attention away from Noha. OMG! let me fully express what I think this girl deserves: She needs to be awarded a trophy, a gold medal, and any other award fitting of a truly amazing person that she is. She is like WOW!!! Truly WOW!!!


    Binks

    October 6, 2009

    hot dang, YOU GO GIRL! She definitely set a great example and showed some real guts and bravery! Yay Noha! xD

    On a side note I’d like to know how did she manage to outmaneuver the guy lol that takes some serious skillz.


    dom

    October 7, 2009

    noha : a very courageous woman ! , great respect.


    Kailin

    October 7, 2009

    @ICT – good for you to speak out about what happened to you. It takes a lot of courage to speak out about something that seems so tabooed, and that you know will get you judged by your peers and society. Just like Noha, who dared to speak out in a society that see the perpetrator(the Egyptian men) as the victim rather than the harassed women, what she did serves as an inspiration for other women to speak out and fight a system that heavily favors the wrongdoers. It breaks my heart to hear you had to live with the fear of sexual harassment and child molestation for so long because a bleep bleep bleep (you know what I mean) threatened your family and you if you ever spoke up. I don’t know how old are you now, but it would take years of treatment to get over your experience. I’m also wondering if your parents ever found out, as well, and what happened when they did. Chances are they would have been very supportive of you and still love you no matter what. With your parents’ knowledge, they would probably have been able to help you deal with the harasser. Even if the harasser is someone close to them and you (which makes it harder on everyone), ultimately your parents will stand by you.

    I hope anyone reading this would be encouraged by ICT and Noha’s example to escape from the prison of harassment and molestation (if they are going through it or have been through it) and talk to a professional counselor.

    Also, I hope anyone reading about Noha’s story wouldn’t conclude that all men are bad and can’t be trusted. There are a few that can’t, but overall, there are many wonderful men out there who are trustworthy, supportive, giving, and good.

    Just an opinion from someone who has been there as a young women’s adviser and friend of a few dear friends who have been sexually harassed and molested.

    with all good intent and love,

    Kailin


    samar

    October 24, 2009

    YEAH NOHA YOU GO GIRL!!! **APPLAUSE**